I will have an experience that happened last week and left me "marking busy."
The children of my neighbor gave them a few months ago, 6 chicks at a supermarket and, obviously, they wanted to keep them at home and your pets. I know this because one day my daughter took me by the hand to the balcony to show the "tweet tweet" I saw in the courtyard of them.
Time passed, and those chicks began to grow and we realized they were not females, became some roosters. These young cocks began singing at 5:30 am, Monday through Sunday. As will understand, the situation went from being anecdotal to bother, since I did not understand why my neighbor did not get these animals, but I found time to talk to them the situation.
recalled a similar circumstance I saw in the media several years ago where a child had a pet rooster and the neighbors had tried again and again to the parents of this child reconsider and take the bird to a place where I could sing without disturbing anyone.
Well, as I am the delegate of my condo, I spoke with the administrator to find out what could be done to address this situation, before it transformed into something unpleasant. So I asked was an orientation to act well. Along with that, I asked the concierge as well have.
What happened next is worthy of the tenement. The doorman decided to put a complaint in the City, from whence they came to review the "alleged breeding birds" denounced by this person. Jorge, my neighbor, reacted indignantly, not understanding why without saying a word, he had to deal with the inspector sent by the Municipality and at the same time, he had to calm their children, who thought for a moment that came to kill their pets. The concierge defended himself saying that he had received orders from the company, ie me. And to me, very cynical, had told me that when my neighbor had claimed, he had cast all the blame, not wanting to cause problems between neighbors and also explained how George had threatened with lawsuits for what happened.
happened that a couple of days, when I looked at my neighbors, I saw a couple stubborn, threatening, angry and antisocial, and did not understand what they wanted to keep those cocks at home. So I decided to go talk to them.
At that time, both understood what had really happened and how we had a third person ill against each other. Understand the importance of dialogue and face situations honestly, difficult though it may seem. I realized that there are unscrupulous people who save their skin, are capable of making up stories and lie shamelessly. But what surprised me was that from that day, I looked at my neighbors otherwise.
were no longer stubborn, but a caring parent, who wanted to teach their children the value of life, even a small chick. They were not threatening, but a family trying to care for and protect what they considered an attack on their privacy. They were not angry, but people normal, like us, reacted to a noxious stimulus. They were not antisocial, just the opposite. I showed understanding for the situation where I was, I explained that had already realized the problem they caused and had taken the decision to take the birds to a field. But they also told me what they thought of me and, fortunately, the perception that they had at first had improved strongly after this conversation.
What incredible how harmful it can be a comment or a malicious lie. And this has me all week reflexive. Today greeting otherwise, because I found them a few people worthy of my respect and admiration. But I could not help thinking what if I do I get to raise my point of view and let things take their cause.
If we forget for a moment that person that we are predisposed to be bad, I'm thinking that each of our actions, however small, causes a reaction in those around us. And we do not know how will this reaction. We often think that if we leave happy or positive is something we necessarily have to be the same with the rest. We forget that each person is different and that, therefore, acts differently.
I think it's good to consider this when making decisions, either in our home with our children, in the office, on the street ... in short, everywhere ... I think that this way we can become better people ...
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